I am just disgusted by the "laws" at your university. I am a student at the University of Cape Town and I have lived in University Residences for the past five years and when I was still living in junior residences, the rules were there to forbid people to have overnight visitors, especially in the ladies residences. There is no way the university could go around asking or checking people's rooms whether there is a visitor or not. So students do have people sleeping over without the authorities knowing. But any way for me or anyone to be at the university at any age it means the person "is responsible enough" to take care of himself/herself and the university cannot interfere in student's PRIVATE LIFE.
I understand that the students are there to study, not to engage in sex which for heavens sake can take place during the allowed hours. I think your university should rather provide more sex education and time management and STOP going around in people's rooms think students should unite against this STUPID laws.
Thanks. I hope I put my point through!
Seabata Dinthe,
University of Cape Town
South Africa
I feel that co- ed dormitories can be beneficial to the students. However, these students are not trusted to have visitation past a reasonable hour for adults. Why build a $740,000 home for President Bristow, when the students live in overcrowed, indecent housing? I once resided in Lanier and Robinson Halls. Now, two of the ladies' dorms have been given to the men. That is ridiculous.
Varnita Young
Greenville, Miss.
I WAS ASTONISHED TO READ ASU STILL HAS THE
SAME OUTDATED VISITATION POLICIES... GUESS WHAT WE HAD NO VISITATION
ALL ALL WHEN I WAS A STUDENT..... HOWEVER IS SAD TO SEE THAT THINGS HAVE
NOT CHANGED MUCH IN THAT DEPARTMENT IN OVER 10 YEARS........ I
UNDERSTAND THE STAFF'S CONCERNS ABOUT COED DORMS...... HOW EVER IT'S
BEEN PROVEN TIME AND TIME AGAIN THAT PEOPLE DESIRE WHAT IS
FORBIDDEN....... EVEN THOUGH WE HAD A NO VISITATION POLICY THAT DID NOT
STOP MALES FROM VISISTING FEMALES IN THEIR DORM ROOMS ....IT JUST MADE
US FIND CREATIVE WAYS TO SNEAK THEM IN......SURE A FEW PEOPLE GOT
CAUGHT BUT EVERYONE JUST LEARNED FROM THEIR MISTAKE...AND FOUND
ANOTHER WAY TO GET THEM IN..... HOWEVER I AM IN AGREEMENT WITH A NO
VISITATION POLICY FOR FRESHMAN...SIMPLY BECAUSE THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE
OF COLLEGE AND BEING ON YOUR OWN TAKES SOME ADJUSTMENT FOR
NEWCOMERS....IF THINGS ARE LIKE THEY WERE WHEN I WAS THERE....(SOME
THINGS NEVER CHANGE)...AT THE BEGINNING OF EVERY SCHOOL YEAR THE
MALE UPPERCLASSMEN CAN'T WAIT TO POUNCE UPON "FRESH MEAT".....I'VE
SEEN TO MANY FRESHMEN GET CAUGHT UP IN THIS GAME .....AND HAVE TO
LEAVE SCHOOL.
Evelyn Day
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